11 Things Women Notice When Deciding If a Man Is Worth Her Time
active education without interruption
clearly purposeful and personal style is clean an
exposure non oversharing
grinning friendliness not at her cost
handshake or touch that s hard but soft
pay through on little drive ups
pose that cries silent dignity
questions of real curiosity
steady not staring eye contact
the energy that matches without mirroring fake
the way he treats service employees or unknown peo
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People get first impressions not simply because they are superficial but because they are a quick assessment or scan of character that shows a level of confidence and compatibility in a few seconds, sometimes before a single word is uttered. Women, pattern-detection-evolutionarily-equipped, note the slightest indicators that someone is a keeper or a next, as they weed through a multiplicity of choices. It is not a question of the checklists, it is energy; does he uplift her or does he suck out? Years of de-coding dating stories of friends and experts have taken a toll: eye contact that is not leering, humor that is not mean, but merely light. Bad news? Outward beauty is deceptive in the short run, yet when it comes to sincerity, body language and sincerity make all the difference. Good news? Minor adjustments such as firm handshakes, or avid listening, switch switches within a short time. Women on the go are time watchers--nobody would spend hours of their life with posers. Stick on these eleven, and conversation runs, adopted figures change their places, tones strike a chord; miss them, and doors close courteously enough. This is what they observe immediately, at all times.